Hello friends.. If you know me, you probably already know by now that I will be going on a four month long journey to Bangladesh to work with a NGO called Bachte Shekha (Learning to Survive). The NGO works with women and children on a mission to empower them into the community by improving their socio-economic condition..
My love for the people in need has always been inherent in me. May be because from a very young age I was exposed to life in a developing country, Bangladesh where I was born, and developed countries, New Zealand and Australia, where I grew up. I was able see and experience on many levels, the struggle of an average person in a developing country and the opportunities that we take for granted sometimes.
My love soon became my passion as my life took a dark turn (will talk about that another day). As I came out of this experience, I felt like I have found my purpose in life, which was to help the ones in need. I wanted to do something about it. I picked up some community based voluntary work with a few different organisations. The work has been extremely rewarding and I will continue to do that. Apart from that I have also been wanting to do some work overseas.
At the start of this year I was in Bangladesh for my brother’s wedding and I took this opportunity to suss out a number of local NGO’s I could potentially work with. I came to know about Bachte Shekha through couple of uncles and after I read about what they do, I was super excited about an opportunity to work with them. I went and spoke to the founder, Angela Gomes and I fell in love with her and the work the organisation does. Angela is an amazing down to earth person. She practically built the NGO from scratch and she devoted her whole life to this. She is so passionate about her work. When she started sharing some of her stories, we both broke into tears. We shared an amazing conversation and I could feel an innate connection. I was certain I wanted to work with Bachte Shekha and wanted Angela as my mentor. She was keen and I was keen. So, all I had to do was come back to Australia, have a discussion with my husband …and mum and dad, negotiate leave at work, get my finances organised and get my life organised. Easy right?? Haha!
To be honest though, having a loving husband who supports you makes everything a little easier. My workplace was very supportive as well (I did give them seven months notice). And for the last nine months I have been preparing myself for this trip (still haven’t finished packing, OMG! why do I do this to myself???).
So, on Boxing day I will be flying to Bangladesh and in hope for a new chapter in life. I am very
excited and nervous at the same time. I am really hoping I will be learning an enormous amount and develop a new perspective in life…
I will be sharing my experiences and challenges here and would love to see your love and support. Stay posted and enjoy!
Fammy out! Muuwah!
Such an exciting journey!!!!! So much courage in taking this step – all the best!
Thank you so much hun! Thanks for having faith in me and always inspiring me 🙂
Wishing you all the best in your journey Fammy dear!!!! You will do wonders for others and I know it will be an amazing experience as you tread through the world of development work.
Thank you Luna apu… This is actually happening.. Sometimes I have to remind myself that I am going to do something I always wanted to do..
Wow. Nice intro to your journey. Would love to hear about the people you meet and their stories. Unashamedly take lots of portraits (want to see the lines on their faces).
Dont be afraid to try new and old things (food, experiences). And if you see a nagordola, get on it. And if you see a shapure, stop and ask them to put on a show just for you. And rasta theke cha, jhal muri and shingara khaba. And always be kind to people even if they arent kind to you.
But most of all smile always, enjoy the experience, the good and the bad. There will be beautiful and there will be ugly. Experince both to the fullest and grow.
Good luck fammy.
We will be following you (not stalking) (well not stalking for now) (not that i would ever stalk you even in the future) (i think i shouldn’t have bought this stalking issue up)
I can’t wait to meet some amazing people and hear about their stories.. just that in itself will be a great experience for me 🙂 Thanks for always supporting me.
and yes! loads of photos are on it’s way.. Probably won’t eat too many street food, but let’s see.. thank you so much for your beautiful words (minus the stalking bit) Haha! but please do stalk me, so I won’t feel like a lonely old person somewhere so far away from home..
I cannot wait to follow the next chapter of your life Fahm! The ones before have indeed been big and amazing. I know your love and life experience will reach deep into the hearts of those who need it… even if they don’t know it yet. Big love to you my dear friend! X
Thank you for always being there for me and believing in me.. Without you I wouldn’t be standing where I am today.. I hope I can live up to the expectations of so many and myself.. Love you Lisa 🙂